Celebrating the Life of
Richard Hoag Wilcox (Dick)

sketch of ship with sails

September 23, 1927 - May 6, 2004

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'Tis the Set of the Sail
-Ella Wheeler Wilcox

One ship sails east and another sails west

With the self-same winds that blow.

'Tis the set of the sail and not the gale

Which determines the way they go.

As the winds of the sea are the ways of fate

As we voyage along through life,

'Tis the set of the soul that determines the goal,

And not the calm or the strife.

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Celebrating the Life of

Richard Hoag Wilcox (Dick)

May 15, 2004

Prelude

Welcome

Lighting the Chalice

-Dick's daughter and grandson, Kathryn and Anthony Caliando

Responsive Reading No. 719: Those Who Live Again

Moment of Silence

Spirt of Life - Hymn No. 123 - Please remain seated.
Spirit of Life, come unto me.
Sing in my heart, all the stirrings of compassion.
Blow in the wind, rise in the sea,
Move in the hand, giving life the shape of justice.
Roots hold me close, wings set me free,
Spirit of Life, come to me, come to me.
-words and music by Carolyn McDade

Reading:    from The Spell of the Yukon by Robert Service -Chris Bell

Hymn No. 388: Dona Nobis Pacem             -Dawn Star Borchelt, leader

Reading: Sea Fever by John Masefield              -John T. Crestwell, Jr.

Choral Anthem: Panis Angelicus                            -Cesar Franck

Tony Ciarionte, euphonium

Eulogy Rev.  Don Cameron-Kragt

Music:   Sing Me to Heaven       -Paul Hill Chorale
      -text: Jane Griner; music, Daniel E. Gawthrop

Music: Menuets I and 2 from Singende Muse an der Pleisse

-Johann Sigismund Scholze( 1705-1750)

Recorder group: Dixon Redditt, Ginny Bridges, Sandy Rutiser

Remembrances from Dick's Family

Musical Selection                                          -Grace Griffith

Open Sharing of Remembrance

Choral Anthem: Cantique de Jean Racine                     -Gabriel Faure

Anita Parins, cello

Reading:    from Thanatopsis by William Cullen Bryant

-Rev.  Don Cameron-Kragt

Hymn No. 311: Let It Be a Dance

Closing

Musical Selection                                          -Grace Griffith

Benediction (Congregation standing and holding hands)
From You I Receive, To You I Give,
Together We Share, By This We Live.
      -words:    Sufi Chant, adapted
      -music:    Joseph and Nathan

Postlude

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The reception is provided by the Davies Memorial Committee.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to:

Davies Memorial Unitarian Universalist Church, 7400 Temple Hill Rd, Camp Springs MD 20748; 301-449-4308; www.dmuuc.org

The Master Chorale of Washington, Suite LL2,1200 2r St NW, Washington DC 20007; 202-471-4050; www.masterchorale.org

Nabonal Cancer Institute, Building 31 Room 1 1AI6, 9000 Rockville Pike, Bethesda MD 20892; 301-496-5803; www.nci.nih.gov

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REMEMBERING DICK...

Dick grew up on a farm in southern NJ with his parents, Hazel May and Raymond Boorman Wilcox, and his big sister, Elizabeth (Betty), with a couple of cats, and his dog, Prince.  After graduating from Burlington High School, he started at Lafayette College in Easton, PA, but that was interrupted when he enlisted in the Navy in 1945.  He was an electrician's mate in the Navy, and his service took him to Great Lakes Naval Air Station, Corpus Christi, TX, and Guantanamo Bay in Cuba.  After his stint in the Navy, he worked for RCA in Philadelphia, installing televisions, before resuming his studies at Lafayette, where he met his wife, Jean Balderston - singing, of course.  They married on May 13, 1950, in Colton Chapel at Lafayette, and his senior year, they lived in temporary veterans' housing on campus, nick-named 'Passion Flats'.  Dick graduated with a BS in Electrical Engineering in 1951, after which they moved to Washington DC, where Dick began a long and rewarding career with the federal government.  Along the way, he eamed a Masters in Engineering Management from George Washington University.  He retired from the Arms Control and Disarmament Agency, from whom he had received a Superior Honor Award in 1993.

Church, and the 'Davies family', were a large part of Dick's life, where he served on the board, was choir director for a time, sang in the choir, and played his flute in various instrumental groups.  His love of music extended beyond church; he taught himself to play the piano and the balalaika.  Over the years, he and Jean sang in various community choirs, and Dick also sang with the Paul Hill Chorale, later the Master Chorale of Washington.  During his tenure with the group, they had two concert tours in Europe.  Jean joined him on both tours, and he was thrilled to be able to share Vienna with her.

Dick had many interests, which sometimes overlapped.  During college, he eamed his pilots license, and he enjoyed flying until the east coast airways became too congested, at which time he switched to boating.  The family always had a boat, first power boats, and later sailboats, and he enjoyed customizing them almost as much as sailing with family and friends.  His aptitude for engineering and woodworking was displayed in their homes as well as their boats, and he even built his own sailboat, which could be carried on top of the station wagon.

His wife Jean, daughters Lynn and Kathy, son-in-law Paul, grandson Anthony, and family and friends will always remember Dick's quick wit and tremendous wisdom.

 

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