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What's To Become of Men?

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By Dr. Bruce T. Marshall
May 29, 2011

The topic for this morning’s sermon comes from the Davies services auction. At the services auction this past March, I offered—to the highest bidder—the right to name a topic or a concern or a question as the subject of a sermon. I did not necessary pledge to come to the conclusion that the purchaser might want, but I did pledge to wrestle with the topic that was chosen.

It’s useful for me to do this. For one, it raises a little money for the church. But offering the right to name a sermon topic also forces me into realms I might not otherwise venture into. Often the topic named is something I wouldn’t have thought of. Or it’s something I don’t know very much about. Or it’s beyond my comfort zone. All of these apply today. I probably would not have thought of this topic. I don’t know much about it. And: it’s beyond my comfort zone.

Nevertheless, I’ll make an attempt.

This topic starts with an observation and then proceeds into statistics which identify a problem. The observation is that the United States puts people in jail at a rate higher than any other country. We have 5% of the world’s population but almost 25% of the world’s prisoners; that’s 2.3 million people behind bars. China, with a population four times that of the United States, comes in a distant second with 1.6 million people in prison.

If we consider the rates of incarceration—that is, the percentage of the population that is in jail—the United States also leads the world with 751 people in prison for every 100,000 in population. The only other country that comes close to that rate is Russia, with 627 prisoners for every 100,000 people. Other industrialized countries show much lower figures. England has 151 people in jail per 100,000; Germany’s rate is 88 per 100,000; and Japan’s is 63 per 100,000.

Moreover, this is a recent phenomenon. The US prison population has shot up dramatically in the last 25 – 35 years. In the 50 years between 1925 and 1975, this country’s rate of incarceration stayed steady at about 110 per 100,000 people. But from 1975 until the present, that rate has shot up by a factor of almost 7—I don’t even know the word for that: if increasing by a factor of 4 is quadrupling, I guess going up by a factor of 7 must be something like “septoogling?”

Whatever we name it, there is something going on. And as with most “somethings” that are going on, multiple causal factors are involved.

Some of these are:

Our emphasis on being “tough on crime,” which began in about the 1970s and produced more and longer prison terms.

Also, the United States criminal justice system puts people in jail for lesser crimes than in other countries. This is one of the few places in the world where passing bad checks can land you in jail. Also, drug violations are punished more severely here and at an escalating rate. In 1980, about 40,000 people were in American prisons doing terms for drug crimes. Today, it’s approaching half a million.

The rate of crime in the United States is not that different than in other countries. But the crimes themselves tend to be more violent, due in part to the ready availability of guns. More violent crimes produce longer prison sentences.

Another factor is that the judicial selection process in the United States is heavily politicized. In some areas, judges are elected directly; in other areas judges are still subject to political pressure. If you have ambitions of being a judge—or of keeping your job as a judge—positioning yourself as “tough on crime” is a proven vote getter. And being “tough on crime” usually translates as putting a lot of people in jail.

Others have pointed to the privatization of prison facilities as a factor in the increasing rate of incarceration. When private corporations stand to profit, then they are likely to lobby for policies that produce more prisoners. And indeed, National Public Radio reported that Arizona’s recent stringent illegal immigration legislation was given significant support—both lobbying support and help in actually drafting the legislation—by the corporations that run the prisons. (Build them, and they will come.)

Young African American men are imprisoned at a much higher rate than those in other populations. According to one source, over 10% of African American men between 20 and 25 years old are now in jail. In 1980, there were 143,000 black men in prison and 463,700 enrolled in college. That is, there were over three times the number of African American men in college as in jail. Twenty years later, there were 603,032 African American men in college, an increase of about a third. But there were 791,600 black men in prison. That is, there are now more African American men in jail than in college. Moreover, the rate of incarceration increased by a factor of five in just twenty years.

There are terrible personal and social costs when so many people spend so much time in jail. It’s also expensive in real dollars. In Maryland, for every dollar spent on higher education, $.74 goes to prisons. In five other states, more tax money goes to corrections than to higher education.

We could go on in this vein for awhile, but I think the point is made. There are a lot of people in jail in the United States, the rate of imprisonment has been increasing dramatically, a lot of those prisoners are young men, and a disproportionate number of these are young African American men.

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These statistics could bring on a sermon about prison reform or one that urges us to re-evaluate our approach to incarceration. That would be valid, but it’s not what the purchaser of this topic is concerned with. It’s also not where I want to go. While it is certainly true that the high rate of imprisonment in this country results in part from how we define and punish crimes, it’s also worth considering whether other factors might be involved.

All societies, including our own, offer guidance—roadmaps, if you will—that help manage the transition from childhood to adulthood. They guide boys to becoming men and then provide images of what it is to be a man. As they also guide girls to becoming women and then provide images of what it is to be a woman. During our Time for All Ages this morning, Denise told about an initiation rite from New Guinea intended to help manage that transition. The masked figure represented the scary things out there in the adult world. The ritual battle between the boy and the masked figure—which would end in victory for the boy—showed that it was possible to defeat those scary things. It demonstrated to the boy that he could become a man.

Joseph Campbell explored myths from around the world that define this transition into manhood and suggested that they follow a universal pattern. He called it the myth of the hero: the hero with a thousand faces. These stories vary in their specifics, but the underlying pattern, according to Joseph Campbell, goes something like this:

A hero ventures forth from the world of common day into a region of supernatural wonder: fabulous forces are there encountered and a decisive victory is won: the hero comes back from this mysterious adventure with the power to bestow boons (benefits) on his fellow man.

This myth of the hero is expressed in many contexts, such as, in popular culture. For example, in creating the Star Wars series, George Lucas consciously drew upon Joseph Campbell’s work. Luke Skywalker is the classic hero who is subject to tests and trials as he negotiates the road to adulthood in his world. (So you see it was quite appropriate for Jaida to offer the theme from Star Wars this morning as our prelude.)

Society not only offers stories that instruct young people about how to make their way into adulthood, it also provides points of entry into that adult world. In our society, for example, getting a drivers license and then owning a car. Suddenly this child finds himself or herself subject to the laws and responsibilities of adulthood. Or getting a job which usually means moving from being supported by one’s parents to supporting oneself. Or marrying—taking responsibility not just for oneself but for a family unit, a family unit that might someday include children.

That’s the way it should work. Society offers ways in which children become adults, in which boys become men. But sometimes it doesn’t work. Something breaks down, and this transition into adulthood becomes difficult to negotiate. Not for everyone, perhaps, but for a sizeable portion of the population. This breakdown can be seen in a variety of symptoms. Such as, increases in unemployment, in mental illness, a widening gap between rich and poor, a delayed entrance into the adult world, increases in violence...and increases in the prison population. When people can’t find a place in society following the customary routes, then some try others which might be illegal.

Is this is what we’re seeing in the statistics detailing the increase in American prison populations? Perhaps it’s not just that Americans have become altogether too enthusiastic about putting people in jail—even though we are. Perhaps it’s not just that our criminal justice system is running on steroids—which it is. Perhaps it’s not just that we are becoming a more punitive society—which we are.

Perhaps it’s also that the route to adulthood has become less clear; obstacles have been created that make it difficult for young people to make their way along this road. And perhaps these obstacles affect men disproportionately, and men in minorities even more.

If so—if this is a valid interpretation of what we are seeing—what can we do about it? Specifically, do churches have anything to offer as we confront the possibility that old routes leading to adulthood don’t work as they did for previous generations—and new routes have not created pathways that reliably guide individuals toward becoming productive and self-sufficient adults.

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During my time on this earth, I have seen the roles of men in our society change. I have seen assumptions about what it is to be a man change. This is not necessarily a bad thing. In many ways, it’s been a good thing; it’s been a good thing for me. I did not want to be what it seemed like men were supposed to be as I was growing up. This transition in the role of men offered options to me that might not have been available before.

As an example of this change, look to the fields of work that once were virtually closed to women. Our two daughters are pursuing careers in fields that a generation or two ago would have been difficult, just because they are women. One is studying to become an architect, the other is entering graduate school to become a geologist. Thirty years ago, forty years ago, there weren’t a whole lot of women architects or geologists. Today, there are bunches of them. When I began as a Unitarian Universalist minister, there were only a few women in ministry, and most of those were in lower echelon positions. Today, women dominate the Unitarian Universalist ministry. For me, that’s been good. I am more comfortable with the feeling-oriented style of ministry that women have brought. I was never one of those super rationalist guys that male Unitarian ministers used to be.

But you have to wonder, what’s become of the men who would have been architects, geologists, and ministers? What’s become of the men who would have taken any number of the other positions that have become more welcoming of women? I doubt that these fields have grown enough to employ the numbers of men that would have been in them had older patterns prevailed. So what’s become of those men?

Maybe you’ve been struck, as I have, by the number of young women we encounter who are strong, sure of themselves, knowing what they want, moving along a clear personal and/or career path. And maybe you’ve also encountered young men who don’t quite seem to know where they are going or what they are doing. In my own limited experience, it seems more often today the men who are drifting, the women who have chosen clear pathways to a goal.

Perhaps this is just one example of a deeper pattern that gets expressed in many ways beyond the increase in prison population. For boys and adolescents today, it seems to be more challenging to manage the transition from childhood to being a man.

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When a society gets shaken up, when roles and expectations change, and when people get caught in the middle, there is a temptation to return to the memory of more stable times. Bring back the nuclear family as the foundation of society, bring back the traditional roles of men and women; bring back the one-income household; bring back guaranteed job stability; bring back that old time religion; bring back returnable glass bottles, dial telephones, Studebakers and black and white TV. It might be tempting to return to the good old days, but it is not going to happen.

And besides, that is not what we of the liberal religious tradition do. Lots of religions try: they try to stop change in its tracks. But that’s not what we do. Our role has been and continues to be: embrace progress, affirm the advance of human rights, advocate for change—even when these changes bring unintended side-effects: side-effects like some people feeling that they have lost their place in the world.

So if our role is not to try to role back change, then what is it?

Let me offer a possibility. I’ll introduce that by remembering a job I had when I lived in Cleveland. For a time, I worked for an African-American newspaper. It was originally called The Cleveland Voice, and I was in on the second issue. Then The Village Voice, which seems to own the word, Voice, when applied to a newspaper, intervened, and the newspaper’s name changed to The City News, which is what it is today.

My assignment at The City News was to write profiles of individuals in the Cleveland African American community. I was an unlikely staff member: a middle-aged white man in a black paper run by people much younger than I. But I was willing, and they needed somebody so I got the part. I would make an appointment for an interview, then show up at an office or a home or restaurant. People would do a double-take when they saw me—there are a lot of Marshall’s and Bruce’s in the black community, so they had made some assumptions. But then people would talk; they would tell me about themselves and their lives and what it they were doing and what was important to them.

This was inner-city Cleveland. It’s a rough place: some people just hanging on, some not even hanging on. I learned a lot about life in that community—the struggle to make ends meet, the drugs sold on the street corners, the efforts to take care of children who were falling between the cracks, the attempt keep kids in school.

But what impressed me and has stuck with me is something else. Not the difficulties of life in that environment but the efforts of people to make changes, to help each other, to work together to create a better future. Now granted, I was talking to a select group—local leaders, people involved in organizations, those who took seriously their role in the community—but still, what impressed me was that just about everybody I talked with was doing something to help the community. It might have been a little something—maybe just affecting one or a few other lives, nothing that was going to overturn life in inner city Cleveland. But something. Maybe it was tutoring a child who was having trouble in school. Maybe it was becoming a foster parent. Maybe it was starting a small neighborhood business. Maybe it was serving on a committee to help support the school. Maybe it was being a neighborhood lookout to keep drugs off the streets. Whatever it was, it was something. Something to help people in this community, no matter what the circumstances in which they found themselves.

I think about that and wonder if maybe here is a response to the question which is the title of this sermon, “What’s to become of men?” Life has changed in our time, particularly for men. Some men—not all but some—have found these changes difficult. They have floundered and foundered as traditional roles and assumptions have slipped away. Some men go around feeling lost, out of place. Some are angry, some become violent. Some get put in jail.

A response to this condition that we can offer from our religious tradition—one that is authentic to our religious tradition—is to encourage us, each of us, to do something to serve the community, to serve others. Like the people I met in Cleveland: do something to help an individual, a neighborhood, a community. Just do something.

Maybe it’s serving on a committee, maybe it’s tutoring, maybe it’s mentoring a young person, maybe it’s cleaning up somebody’s yard, maybe it’s picking up trash off the street, maybe it’s trying really hard to understand somebody who’s different from you. Something to help rebuild the community, uphold a sense of the value of people and the enterprises in which we engage.

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So what’s to become of men—in this new age in which the roles men play are not so clearly defined?

You might have seen the cover article a few months back in our national magazine, the Unitarian Universalist World. It was about Superheroes. You know, like Superman, Batman, Spiderman, Wonder Woman. The author, Doug Muder, noted a change in the nature of superheroes in recent times, perhaps reflecting a change in what we need—a change in our own myths of the hero, a change in how we might manage the transition from childhood to adulthood.

Earlier superheroes—like Superman—were individualists. They saved the world alone. They didn’t have any help, they didn’t need any help, they didn’t want any help. Moreover, they were isolated individuals, without family, without a past. Batman was an orphan, Spiderman was raised by his aunt, Superman arrived on earth from a planet that had just blown up. These superheroes were not based in a community, did not have the guidance of ancestors; they were on their own.

I don’t keep up with comic books, but apparently there’s been a change in recent years. This not a change in the mission of superheroes. Superheroes save the world. That’s what they do. The change is in how they approach that mission. Where earlier superheroes were loners, the newer varieties work in relationship with others. They have teachers; they have mentors; they draw from a tradition. The X-men all have a mentor who imparts wisdom to guide their mission. Luke Skywalker has Obiwan Kenobi, the last of the Jedi knights, who shows him how to be a man. According to Doug Muder who wrote this article, after 1980, all the newer superheroes have mentors and some get their strength through finding that they are part of an ancient lineage. That is to say, they are connected—to other people, to teachers, to ancestors, to a wisdom tradition.

Maybe these stories are part of a collective myth that tell us something of what we need now, in this age, to become heroes again: heroes of our own lives. In a time of transition, when pathways into the future are not clear, then maybe what we need is to come together. Find teachers, seek out the wisdom of our families, our ancestors, our traditions. Seek support to take our next steps into the future.

What’s to become of men? I don’t know. But I suspect I know something about how to find out, that is, how to manage the transition from the men of yesterday to becoming the men of tomorrow. That is, help each other, learn from each other, guide each other, stand by each other. “Lean on me,” as the closing hymn expresses it in terminology that would make earlier generations of superheroes and Unitarians shudder. “Lean on me...We all need somebody to lean on.”

Sources:

Washington Post, New High in U.S. Prison Numbers, February 29, 2008
The New York Times, Inmate Count in U.S. Dwarfs Other Nations’, April 23, 2008
NPR, Was Arizona’s Immigration Law Prompted by Private Prisons?, April 20, 2011.


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